Perhaps Kennedy “King Kaka” Obema’s journey to stardom is a metaphor for the path I took to meet him. I'm on Mombasa Road, where it joins the Outer Ring Road, and heads into Tasya, via a tarmac or what used to be a tarmac road, lots of potholes breaking axles, human traffic and parts of the road that don't look like parts of the road at all.
If this sounds like the path to success, you'll make the right money. He grew up here, in the Eastlands, and the city has delivered on its promise to him: businessman, musician, poet, screenwriter; This is the Kaka Empire.
But fame comes with its shadow twin, which is shame. He almost lost everything when he tangled with death at one point and “my money can't save me.” He lost his appetite. lost weight. The king was naked. Now he leaves nothing to chance. “I laugh more. I watch more movies. 'I do what I want,' he says. 'I'm a genius.'” He clearly has no self-esteem.
It is fitting, then, that we conduct our interview against the backdrop of an outdoor crusade, as we see him born again, resurrected from the jaws of death – the Grim Reaper, after all, not known for his penchant for money, but for souls.
What makes you you?
I have a unique eye. I see things differently and I always do. This ability has served me well in my career, allowing me to explore many opportunities.
What brought you here?
Working with purpose and crafting with intention. It's about turning what's in your head into reality. This is wise. right? (chuckle).
What did you know then that helps you now?
This poverty is a great motivator. When you lack, you have all the time to think about the things you don't have. This motivated me. I would like to pay tribute to my enthusiasm and vision, but the main reason is poverty. I lacked it so I wanted to conquer the world.
You are an entrepreneur, artist, father, husband, and now a film producer. Have you ever felt like a prisoner of yourself?
It may be a cliche, but Eliud Kipchoge's famous quote “No man is limited” resonates with me, it has become my life's motto. With vision you find a purpose to face the future. It's all about what you want for yourself.
For example, yesterday I went to bed at 4am, woke up at 7am, and was on set at 8:30am. I've been filming all day and now I'm in the studio. I have two more meetings to attend, which means I'll be home around midnight. It's all about what you want for yourself.
What are you chasing, or rather what are you running from?
Haha! I am escaping poverty, not only a lack of financial resources, but also a state of mind. I believe in continuous development. I am almost 40 years old. I've lived through VCRs, cassette tapes, CDs, DVDs, VCDs, flash drives, and streaming platforms. I have witnessed this kind of development. The question is: What obstacles do you face in Lego towards development, in whatever field you choose?
What does money mean to you now?
Money is a tool to achieve dreams. It helps implement ideas and better prepares you for opportunities. There were times I had crazy ideas, but I didn't have the money, so it seemed impossible. Now that I have money, when I have a dream, I go into one of my accounts and do it. I will set up an initial budget, and by the time I reach out to potential partners, I already have a base. My strategy is to always enter the room more prepared than the previous person or the next person.
Can one have it all?
Yes, but balance is key. My health scare taught me (over the course of four months of hospitalization) to appreciate life more, work less, and enjoy time with my loved ones. I was a crazy workaholic, and now I don't work Mondays and Thursdays. I was a slave to money but I realized it was never enough. Now I hang out, go on road trips, and travel. This year, I will be taking two vacations; One in Rwanda and the other in the United States. When she entered the hospital, she realized that no matter how much money she had, it was nothing. I couldn't walk or eat, but I had money. And he can't help me. Now I live.
What does living life look like?
It's the experience of loving and spending time with those who matter. I'm intentional with family and friends. I spend my time with my wife and children and shoot movies with friends.
How do people show you love?
(Stops). Genuine care, loyalty and desire for the best for each other. You don't even have to say that.
In the entertainment industry, it's easy to get taken advantage of, from fake friends and all. How do you deal with this kind of loneliness?
In geography, there was a unit that talked about contour lines. My first environment is God, then family, and colleagues. I place people in different levels of importance based on the love they show me. Nameless (Kenyan pop artist) is my mentor, we meet and discuss family and business and I learn a lot from him.
What does fun look like to you?
Movies, travel and exploring new places. I love long trips and discovering the world.
Where did you go and stay with you?
America, Estonia, London and Sandton in South Africa.
What memory takes you to a specific place?
A few years ago, I started to doubt myself. Things didn't seem to be going well for me, and even people in the industry reached out to me. Then a French alcohol company contacted me and asked to work with me. I don't drink but that didn't put them off. This event reinforced my belief that everything you have in your head only gets done because someone is watching you. I don't hold back when it comes to dreaming.
What do you want to leave in your children?
happiness. Every child has their own path, and I want to support them in finding it.
What has being a father revealed for you?
The importance of presence. My kids have a say in what I do.
What special treatment do you offer them?
We have a special morning prayer and I hope they pass it on to their children. I walk around with each of them individually to see how they are doing. I teach them the value of money. I learned this from my mother. She used to sell fruits, and I used to help her count her money.
How do you raise your children in a way that is different from the way you were raised?
With more dynamism and awareness of modern challenges such as social media. I focus on their happiness and ability to adapt.
What do you miss most about your childhood?
The spirit of carefree and simple games. We used to play games like… dova mbararo, And sweets – games. Childhood was devoid of anxiety. Now you have to be mathematical.
How do you preserve your childhood in your life?
I stay consistent and enjoy life without letting fame get to my head.
What is your insecurity?
I've learned to stop asking for external validation. Happiness comes from within. You don't have to ask anyone for verification. You can't please the world. Appreciate yourself.
What would I be surprised to know about you?
I'm partially deaf, and my left arm is shaking.
Is this where you got your ear for music, if you can forgive the pun?
Yes I hear everything, haha! I protect my hearing at all costs.
What are you going through that only a few people can see?
My mother has lupus. She is my best friend and raised us after my father died when I was in seventh grade.
How does growing up without a father affect your relationship with your children?
It's made me more intentional. I had no clue, so I focused on the basics and what was right and wrong.
What do you apologize to yourself for?
Every struggle was worth it. Mistakes taught me hard lessons.
What do you thank yourself for?
I never give up and work towards achieving my dreams. Expanding my love and resources to others.
What's a silly thing or habit that you love?
I collect the alcohol I don't drink and snowballs.
When you think of the weekend what food comes to mind?
Chapo boxing (Chapati with beans) and Local chicken.
What never fails to make you laugh?
I love stand-up comedy and documentaries. My favorite comedian, Njogosh, always annoys me.
What is your superpower?
What do you know that I should know?
You can do anything. Dream big and don't be afraid to work towards it.
I was in the ghetto today talking to a few guys and I can tell they are not ready to make a paradigm shift. If I had the same mentality I would still be in Jericho and Kaloleni, just getting chills. Dream, don't be afraid. Now I shoot movies and go to Hollywood to attend classes. This is just a kid from Jericho saying if you dream you open up more dreams to possibilities.
What will that boy in Jericho say to this man?
You are living the dream. Seems impossible.